I despise death penalty as well. Especially when it wipes out hard work that you did earlier on in a game. Games are supposed to be fun and although a little bit of challenge can be a good thing, death in my opinion is punishment enough in and of itself. A poor design choice to be sure.
To be honest I didn't get to experience much PvP in Aion. The little I did experience was more annoying than it was fun.
I'm keeping an eye on WAR still. But like I stated earlier, it will take some more positive changes from the devs to bring me back. For now much of my attention is focused on DDO where myself, Actarus, and Marylune along with Hootch, Krae, and Jedai from BPR are rolling our attacks with virtual dice and keeping our eyes out for traps and secret doors.
